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Body, what is happening to you?

Yesterday, I couldn’t help but curl up in a ball and cry as my partner tried to comfort me. I know my friends have been telling me to be patient and to love my body even more, but I can’t seem to do it. I can’t help but feel broken. I can’t help but feel lost and hopeless.

I’m scared, and I don’t know what to do.

I tried to converse with my body – “Body, what is happening? Why are you taking my pleasure away from me? What did I do wrong?”

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anonymous questions to naughtyreenie

Questions from Earth: Edition #1 – Lifespan of sex toys

Questions that are asked:
How long should you keep a porous male masturbator (like a Tenga or a Fleshlight) with proper care before there’s probably way too much bacterial growth in the micropores?
When to throw out toys? Also, are there SAFE ways to dispose them?
How do you know when to replace sex toys?
How durable are they longer term? Is there significant drop-offs in performance after a while?
Are there any safe non-porous masturbators for men?

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menstrual sex

Life of a Sheltered Child: Menstrual Sex

Menstrual sex. Is it safe? I still don’t know.

I had it three times.

The first time it happened to me was, well…I don’t even know what was happening to me.

I was at my partner’s house and we were having our weekly fuck session.

As he was repositioning himself, he looked down at his penis and he let out a loud slow gasp.

I, on the other hand, was lying on the bed and I didn’t know what was going on. So I, casually, asked him “What’s wrong?”

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life of a shelthered child ignorance and misconception

Life of a Sheltered Child: Ignorance & Misconception – A Scary Combination

It is scary, now that I look back at all the things I was told as I was growing up.

As a little baby, our minds and thoughts get filled with stories, information, experiences of all sorts that fill the white pages of our mind. Then education comes in, and help us fill the gap between the information we learned by connecting dots and breaking the dots leading to misconceptions. But when it comes to sexuality, where is the education that help break the path leading to misconceptions?

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seriously plus size?

Seriously? Plus size?

I wear size extra small in clothing, and there are times when even extra small are too big for me. However, recently, as I went shopping with a friend, something disturbing happened. As I was looking around in the SPECIAL SALE section – you know, those sections that make you feel like a tornado just passed because clothes are EVERYWHERE on the floor – I noticed a super cute dinosaur sweater. It also seemed to be the last one left because I wasn’t able to find another one. As I tried it on, I immediately fell in love with it. It gave me that puffy look that I liked, and it fitted me perfectly. But weirdly, when I checked the size of this sweater, I was extremely surprised to see “XL” written on it.

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